HI, IT ,IS LIKE IN MY HOUSE, MY HUSBAND IS NOT INTERESTET , IN ANY THING,HE IS A PAINTER, FOR OTHER PEOPLE HE DOESE, FOR MY AND I'M GERMAN, LIKE IT CLEAN, THE HOUSE, GARDEN, MY 2 TOY POODLES, CLEAN AND TAKEN CARE OF, SO WHY IS MY HUSBAND, WHO IS AMERICAN ( SOUTHERN) NOT LIKE ME? HE, SOME TIME, SAYS HE DOES NOT UNDER STAND ME, AFTER 24 YRS. I,KNOW,I FORGET A LOT, BUT I CAN REMEMBER ALL THE BAD THINGS, HAPPENT TO ME,WHY? AS, I HAVE FIBROMALGIA, MY UPER AND LOWER SPIN,HURTS ME ALL THE TIME, WITH THIS OSTEOARTHRITIS, SPINAL STENOSIS. THANK YOU AGAIN